Bodily hair on a woman isn’t gross unless she doesn’t bathe herself. Bodily hair on a woman isn’t unhygienic/disgusting, it isn’t unnatural, it isn’t some damn abomination. Having bodily hair doesn’t make a woman unfuckable. It’s just hair and it grows. Having some fuzz on your legs or in between your legs does not make you any less of a woman. The only thing that makes a woman less of a woman is not identifying as a woman.
Don’t let hyper masculinity that’s forced upon you to stop you from self expression. You’re allowed to have fun with your look. Non of the things I listed are gender specific. Have fun, and do what you want with your hair. Don’t repress, too many black boys/men do that.